I lost my virginity exactly one week ago. I knew when my boyfriend and I started to get physical that he liked to be the submissive one. Well, I also like to be the submissive one, but I also want to be able to please him. I could see eventually enjoying the whole dom. thing. My boyfriend has about 5 years more experience than I do and definatley knows what he is doing and I am completely in the dark. I have no idea how to get him to do what I want. I am not an extremely dominant person unless I’m really angry and by that point, I’m in no mood for sexy time. I am also not very vocal. Im very shy about communicating my desires and needs. After 3 months of being physical I have FINALLY gott up the nerve to “tell” him to go down on me, but now he wants me to MAKE him do things. I know that once I have an idea of what I should do I can be much more comfortable with this but right now I am thoroughly confused. What should I do?