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| Monday, December 15th, 2008 | 1:22 am [my_happy_places]
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in general...  Do you prefer to make ze love, fuck, or just nakedly merge? Current Mood: curious | | Friday, December 12th, 2008 | 2:36 pm [my_happy_places]
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poorly timed sprinkler system  For those of you that have had sex in public places, what was the most embarrassing interruption you've ever experienced? Current Mood: horny | | Tuesday, August 12th, 2008 | 1:06 am [dazesone26]
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TO SUCK OR NOT TO SUCK... hey everyone, PLEASE READ THIS because i need advice !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we have sex all the time, whatever.. Our only hangup is that I HATE GIVING HIM ORAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate everything about it, the few times i have done it i felt like i was going to throw up all over him and not to be disgusting but the taste is revolting! anyway.. sum how i've always managed to avoid this subject or get his mind focused on sumthing else whenever i sense the subject is going to be brought up. Today we had a huge argument about it, he called my selfish and said I never do anything for him! One side of me wants to please him and make him feel good but there is this whole other side of me that tells me I shouldnt feel guilty. Sucking or not sucking his dick is my choice and i shouldnt be guilted into anything!
Am i right? is he right?
Is there anyone out there that feels the same way i do?
What should i do????????? please please give me advice.!!!! Current Mood: confused | | Tuesday, August 5th, 2008 | 1:14 pm [my_happy_places]
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this post has a condom on it...
...or, better to say, responses will be screened. 10:19 AM 8/2/08 · Heard on the burst of stuff I get with my morning news, alarm clock radio, that there's about 56,000 more cases of people infected with the HIV virus (since 2006) in the United States than was previously believed. This seemed as much a shock to the newscaster, who's repeated the announcement every 10 to 20 minutes, as it did to me. Even more of a shock, apparently, to the people that normally track these statistics who were blown away by this revelation. So, I'm xposting this fairly heavily to get the widest range of responses to the following questions: Do you use safe sex? What is your preferred method of safe sex? Do you always use safe sex or stop at some point with some people? Do you also use safe sex for more than just intercourse? Do you practice safe oral sex? Individual mods of the communities I send this to, I hope this is okay. Current Mood: distressed | | Friday, May 4th, 2007 | 11:05 pm [pink_diamonds1]
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Any one know of an online website where I could get a sexy dominatrix costume from? I'm not having much look from Google. Hopefully somewhere relatively cheap... | | Monday, April 30th, 2007 | 7:02 pm [banyangirl1832]
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First post!
Hey everyone. So my boy and I have been together for a little over 14 months now...for the past 3 he's been battling cancer and we're in a long-distance relationship. Suffice to say that we haven't been doing much in the sex department. However, now his sex drive has decided to come crawling back; there's just one problem. Due to some of the meds he was on, his muscles, especially his hands, are very weak. Therefore, he can't get the pressure necessary to "choke the chicken", so to speak. Anyone have any creative ideas for male masturbation methods which don't require the use of the hands? It's really beginning to irritate him. Thanks! Current Mood: cheerful | | Friday, April 27th, 2007 | 1:01 am [kitty7gypsy]
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Domination
I lost my virginity exactly one week ago. I knew when my boyfriend and I started to get physical that he liked to be the submissive one. Well, I also like to be the submissive one, but I also want to be able to please him. I could see eventually enjoying the whole dom. thing. My boyfriend has about 5 years more experience than I do and definatley knows what he is doing and I am completely in the dark. I have no idea how to get him to do what I want. I am not an extremely dominant person unless I’m really angry and by that point, I’m in no mood for sexy time. I am also not very vocal. Im very shy about communicating my desires and needs. After 3 months of being physical I have FINALLY gott up the nerve to “tell” him to go down on me, but now he wants me to MAKE him do things. I know that once I have an idea of what I should do I can be much more comfortable with this but right now I am thoroughly confused. What should I do? | | Friday, April 20th, 2007 | 4:30 pm [pink_diamonds1]
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I have been letting the guy I've been seeing come on various parts of my body and I actually love it. My face, my chest, my stomach, where ever I just love everything about it. We live far away from each other so we talk on the phone or online most of the time but I am going to see him next weekend and told me he wants me to beg for his come. I am totally into the submissive thing but the probably is I honestly don't really know what to say besides like "please" and "I want it so bad", which sounds pretty boring to me. What do those of you who beg usually say? I think I need to start watching porn so I can work on my vocal skills. I'm usually a quiet girl so I'm sure it couldn't hurt. | | Tuesday, April 17th, 2007 | 7:37 pm [avelleenders11]
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So when my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time we had a bit of a pregnancy scare. Due to my age, luckily I wasnt. He was a virgin when we first had sex. Well ever since then he doesnt like to have sex. Like Ill tempt him and everything and he just wont want to do it. He will use every excuse in the book to not have sex. Its not that i dont turn him on, because everytime we are together he is always hard. I asked him today and he said well I guess sex just doesnt appeal to me. He does want to do anal though. Why is he so against having sex? Is it that hes scared? And the few times we did have sex we had to use so many precautions. For example, a spermicide condom (which is a given), we HAD to make sure I wasnt ovulating, and he had to pull out before he came even though he had a condom on. How can I get him to want sex more? All he wants me to do is give him head. Thanks. | 11:03 am [my_happy_places]
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stop...in the name of lust 4:32 AM 4/17/07 · There are generally two things I'm not particularly fond of when I'm watching porn. Other than the type I prefer, which is both hetero and gonzo, I not a big fan of anal sex; it starts up and I usually go around it or switch to a different scene. Also none too fond of watchig the cumshot, probably both because I don't tend to orgasm myself from sex and I don't like the idea it presents that sex ends when the man cums. Do you have any odd porn habits? Current Mood: awake | | Friday, March 9th, 2007 | 10:59 am [evilgrins]
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be it down on male or female flesh
The typical oral sex question is generally do you spit or swallow? which you'll come across anywhere in the United States, China, Mexico, parts of Canada, Mongolia, India, and a few other places... ...I'm well trevaled. Although, I've never asked this question. The one I'm going to ask, that I'm sure no one has ever asked anywhere, in the real world or elsewhere, is the following: Do you gargle? Do you know of anyone that does gargle? That's all. Current Mood: thirsty | | Tuesday, January 2nd, 2007 | 1:59 pm [evilgrins]
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now here's a question...
...inspired by my recent watching of Keeping of Faith. 10:29 PM 12/30/06 · So a priest and a rabbi come flitting across my television screen and I'm suddenly faced with something I've never given much thought before. I knew that priests don't have sex, misguided vow of celibacy and all, but I never gave rabbis (what's the plural of rabbi and how do you spell it?) much consideration. I suppose I had assumed that it was the same for them. Essentially the situation in this movie is 3 kids that grew up as the best of friends but one of them, as it happens a girl, moves away while they're still very young. The two boys grow up and become very invested in each other's faith; one becomes a rabbi and the other a priest. The priest lives a good life, as does his friend, while the rabbi lives a life filled with a number of casual encounters with the opposite sex. Then the girl that was part of their trio comes back into town and things get interesting. Long story short, as in not at all, I have this question. Why is it that priests can't have sex and rabbis (spelling?) can? Also, I was under the impression that some priests do in fact have wives so what's up with that? Just to be thorough...there's a small gap in my knowledge of Islam and I might as well get that cleared up along with the rest of this. What is the name of the equivilant position that a rabbi and a priest hold in that faith? And, naturally, can that person have sex? Current Mood: curious | | Friday, December 15th, 2006 | 11:47 pm [____iwantyou]
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wow okay so my boyfriend and i are planning on having sex really soon and im pretty excited. we're both virgins and im also extremely nervous. im also really scared about getting pregnant =[ i guess i dont really have a question but it would be nice if you guys could share some of your stories of your first time. thankss. | | Wednesday, November 8th, 2006 | 7:02 pm [arcesso]
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Okay, so. :| I've been pretty much scared to mention this to anyone I know because I'm very uncomfortable showing my nether bits to people, but it's scarier not knowing about this sort of thing. Thus, I consult the greatness that is a livejournal community. <3 I have never been sexually active, I have only even made out with two or three guys, but I'm really paranoid I have some sort of STD. :| Very rarely, I get these sort of acne-type sores on my vulva. It's only happened like twice since I can remember, but I got really scared both times. :| Is it likely that this is an STD and if so how do I go about asking my mother to go get tested? I'm only 15 and I'm not sexually active (nor planning on becoming so anytime soon) but I'd like to know if I do have something wrong. Help? Current Mood: worried | | Tuesday, October 17th, 2006 | 11:16 am [evilgrins]
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| | Saturday, August 5th, 2006 | 5:40 pm [happytoseeyou] |
Different or the same?
Are men and women different when it comes to wanting sex? I know, as a guy, I'd say we are not the same at all-women seem to be from another planet - they don't share the same needs or the same perspectives...but I am curious to know what others think, especially women... the way a woman thinks and behaves and desires is a complete mystery to me. In your experience, are we the same when it comes to our sexual desires and needs? Or do you clash over the sexual things men want vs women don't want, the things a guy likes vs what women like, the way we want it and the way you want it, the way we bahave and the way you behave, etc....is there confusion and disagreement and frustration in your sex life or is it complete harmony? | | Thursday, July 20th, 2006 | 10:57 pm [____iwantyou]
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um hi
hi um how do you give head? ive never done anything sexual besides making out and i dont plan on having sex anytime soon but i know boys are horny and ive been with my boyfriend for six months and i want to please him just not having sex so yeah.. | | Tuesday, July 18th, 2006 | 10:20 am [onlyinyour_eyes]
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another question that has been bother ing me me and my bf were fooling around and his dick accidentilly slipped in just the tip into my opening and i got my periode but it was a week early and really LIGHT!!! and i didnt even get any cramp like i usually do.. my period is never messed up and i am 16 should i be worried about being pregnate or am i just over reacting | | Monday, July 17th, 2006 | 6:54 pm [she_does]
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I'm new here, and I just have 1 question right now.. Me and this guy...who's kind of like a boyfriend without the commitment part..had sex in a few public places. We did it in a park bathroom and then on top of a bridge (shut down train tracks). He's almost 19. and I'm only 16. I was wondering what would happen if we got caught in public..would he get in trouble? What else would they do? Thanks for any help! | | Thursday, July 13th, 2006 | 4:33 pm [saboteurs_say]
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Hiya. New member, here. Anyway, some back-ground to my current prob is that inorder to ease a hormonal imbalance in the past, caused by PCOS (cysts on ovaries), I've had to get on the pill. I've been on it for four years now, with a ever-decreasing libido. The pill and my stressed-out lifestyle are huge culprits in that, I do understand. My problem is that now whenever I do seldomly masterbate, quite unexageratively..I. can't. stop. Then, the next day is followed by extreme lethargy and depression. It's like a rollar-coaster, and becoming even more pronounced. What the hell is going on? Thanks much, in advance. |
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